Friday, August 23, 2019

Infant Gets Sick, Here's My Routine.

Taking care of a sick infant can be pretty stressful especially when he or she is getting fussy when it comes to feeding. This is the major reason I am fully control of what should and what shouldn't be fed to my infant. 

I am a former breastfeeding mom and I do believe in natural remedies more than just totally depends on doctor's prescription medicines. In addition to that, pregnancy had taught me to eat healthily. Eating healthily differs from one another to one another. For me, I can still enjoy fast food but in moderation. Somehow, I started to skip the soda especially Coca Cola. I option for Pepsi instead in cases of desperation for soda. Hehe. 

When I talk about 'natural remedies' here, I do not mean it to be a traditional remedy like I have to boil some sort of roots or raw materials or something more complicated like that (that eventually added another burden for me). My natural remedy is pretty much easier and lots of fun!


My Routines When My Infant Gets Sick 
(be it fever, cold or cough)

#1 Bring her to see the doctor. 

Be it a private or general community clinic in my area, the first thing I will do is to bring my sick infant to the clinic. This is a must so that, I am free from any legal liability in the future. (HAHA, just being a conscious paralegal). The thing is, when my infant gets sick, the doctor is the most reliable person I can turn to. So, please make sure to bring your child to seek medical attention from the registered doctor.

These are the medicine prescribed by the doctor for a cough and fever. 

#2 Have an easily prepared meal. 

So, basically, I will cook easily prepared meals for her cause she tends to be fussy in feeding to reduce my stress while hoping that she will eat more so that she wouldn't be dying. I usually cooked her chicken soup and congee rice (white rice porridge). Sometimes, when I felt extremely stress (due to staying up all night), I just prepared her plain congee rice. 

Yesterday, I accidentally 're-invented' some new recipe which is super easy and a lot tastier! HAHA. 

The imitation of McDonald's rice porridge! No need to cook a bowl of separate white rice and chicken soup.


Looks like our local Bubur Lambuk. It tastes like homemade McDonald's rice porridge.

Recipes.

All I need is just...

  • A cup of white rice (raw). Wash it first. Then add lots of water till it remains some two inches from a full measurement of the cooking pot (I use a small pot). Put it on the stove and started to cook.
  • While the rice is being cooked, I...
  • Take a carrot and slice it into small pieces. Add them into the pot!
  • Take a potato and slice it into small pieces as well. Add them into the pot!
  • I add some ginger. Just nice thin slices of ginger.
  • I cut some meat into small pieces and add them too into the pot.
  • I add some salt to taste.
  • I also add a cube of chicken stock by Knorr.
  • Finally, I chopped some Chinese Celery to add some colours and make it a whole lot more appealing.
  • Let them all cooked together in the pot until the water dried and the rice has reached this sticky textures.
This is my new favourite meal.

#3 Vitamin C will come in handy.

Lack of Vitamin C is one of the minor reason for my infant to easily get sicks (this is only my personal mom-ing doctrine).

So, when she refuses to drink her formula milk, I find out that she is more interested to drink some flavoured drink and of course, not the kids flavoured milk. :(

When I felt so frustrated, sometimes, I just bring her to enjoy chocolate milkshakes instead.

This...is my life saver!


I got this at Aeon Jusco Mall, Ayer Keroh.
  • No preservatives
  • No colouring
  • No bla bla bla things that will add my burden. HAHA.
A bottle of this orange juice is quite pricy. So I will have only two to three bottles in hand.

The story behind this orange juice as my lifesaver is...

This one day, my infant refused most of the things I fed her. (She had a cough). I was extremely so stressed that I just bring her out and we ended up straying in Aeon Jusco Mall, Ayer Keroh. I saw this Minute Maid orange juice for KIDS. Amazingly, my infant totally in love with it and on the next day, she is getting better! No more coughing! She started to drink her formula milk as usual.

I was so happy and less worried if she gets sick again. Somehow...until today, I couldn't find the Minute Maid orange juice for KIDS anymore. Well, at least, she'll drink something for her energy; instead of being fussy and starving.

I did buy other more economical options too.






#4 Strawberries

Strawberries are a natural remedy for my sick infant too. They taste a lot sweeter naturally. So, I will get these too when my infant get sicks just to make her feels like eating.

The darker the colours, the sweeter there will be.
Too bad, we weren't growing Sunkist oranges and sweeter strawberries in here.
Australia is the closest market we can afford.



#5 Mineral water instead of filtered tap water.

When my child is having a cough, she tends to get fussy in eating. So, mineral water will help to ease the pain of swallowing and improving metabolism. I personally believe that mineral water is way better than filtered tap water when my infant gets sick in order to ease her sore-throat.

I bought her first Evian yesterday! HAHA. (It's on sale)



#6 Cake is her new best friend.

Omg, a slice of cake is more appealing to her when she gets sick! 

My infant is more likely to have the Hanjuku Cheese Cake for life when she gets sick (not to mention, she did munch this Hanjuku Cheese Cake at 2 a.m last night.)

I also bought her a slice of Chocolate Brulee just in case.


#7 Maximise air circulation.

Since my bedroom is on the second floor, keeping the air from circulating is not a major issue. 



Always always keep an eye for her when the windows are opened.

#8 Let her rest and play.



#9 Kobayashi Kool Fever for Children.

At night, I put these cooling pad at the back of her body, her chest, and her forehead. (Just in case I get too sleepy to monitor her).


#10 Suppository (with doctor's prescription).

My infant tends to have a high-temperature fever at midnight. So, this suppository will be the last resort to maintain her body temperature at night - BUT, with the doctor's prescription of course. My mom will help me through this cause I have a major issue with the human biological business. LOL.


...

Please recover soon, Layla!




Highlights : "Jaga anak orang dengan jaga anak sendiri, tak sama babe!"



Dalam pada anak demam, sempat jugak aku habiskan movie dua jam Sex and the City 2 kat Iflix! HAHAHAHA. Tu yang ada budak bangun makan cheese cake pukul 2 pagi! :D 

Island Themed Inspired - Wall Bedroom

Never thought that three days living in an island had changed half of my perspectives to the human being, surroundings as well as my lifestyles.

I'd been to an island before, the Tioman Island in Mersing, Johor but it wasn't the same at all compared to my current stays at the Perhentian Island, Kuala Besut, Terengganu, Malaysia.

I lost all the pictures on Tioman Island (gladfully I lost them, couldn't stand to look at them again. HAHA) Wearing pj's, even button shirts? LOL.

I am so glad that from out of nowhere, this island was like calling me and by hook or by crook, I must answer the call. Now, I just miss the island and I will never let go of every single thing about it. 

I will share my priceless experience from the days before we were there until the day we left.

In this post, I just wanted to highlight how I preserved the good memories there and how I wish to wake up, open the door and saw a beach few steps from the door, enjoying breakfast with a view, and keep wearing flip flops like a 'bitch don't care'. Good times.

Now, I had some cool inspiring themed for my bedroom. So, bye-bye 'way too girly and childish' and 'that baby overshadowed mommy' bedroom kinda things. I need some space and welcome aboard Perhentian Kecil into my sanctuary. :)





I changed my bed position so that I wake up to this view and of course, now I learned to appreciate those windows more than ever. Let the sun sneaks in, let the wind blows in, and let the rains drop by saying "we miss you more". I am an island girl. (But still, that 'swordfish look alike' and the sharks are not my jam!) LOL.

How time flies easily.

Will write about it soon.

Tuesday, July 30, 2019

Happiest One Birthday, Layla Zulaykha!

I've been delaying this birthday post for almost two years. HAHA.

Let's make it a throwback.

It was in November 2017, my daughter had completed her 12 months of development stages. I, on the other hand, had been a mom for 12 months as well. 

Like I said previously, there were so many things going on in November (in my family), so, I decided to throw a birthday party at my sister's place. She was so glad to cook for us and yay, we had a wonderful and sweet mini birthday party on that day. Thank you.

So, happy birthday to all of us! The November-December born (particularly to my little one, Layla Zulaykha) :)

I was planning on a black and white themed party but as usual, my sister was like...What? LOL.

So yeah, I bought a unicorn theme party pack on Shopee but still, stick to some element of black color (the Chuck Taylor of course) - resembling Avril Lavigne. :p


We've been eating brownies for like 3 weeks straight in that fine month! LOL.

She'd just walked a few days before.
Thank you for the 'black Chuck Taylor babies' dream party!


Abaikan zaman gendut itu. 


Happy Birthday, Layla Zulaykha! :)

p/s: Thanks faghiss, tunaikan impian makyong pakai shoes hi-cut item tu. :p

Sunday, July 28, 2019

Qada' dan Qadar Ku

For these past few months, my life was horribly terrible. 

I have to accept that, my marriage has come to an end. I have to accept that, I am such a failure to my child. I have failed to give her a normal and perfect family.

This divorce is killing me as I cannot stop feeling sorry for her. 

I am so weak and not strong enough to stand up for her.

I am sorry for being so selfish.

Somehow, I need to stand up for myself.

Words cannot really describe what I felt inside right now.

I turn on the radio, I turn on the tv but it seems did not hit the spot.

Tonight, as I keep searching for reducing this pain, Alhamdulillah. 

I will recover soon. 

I am truly sorry for taking him away from you for each meal, for each breakfast, for each lunchtime, and for our dinner as well as supper. Please do forgive me.

It's just that, I hate to keep the arguments forever, in front of you.

I hate to keep us waiting for him each Friday night.

I hate to think about how afraid I was to give you a brother or a sister.

I hate to see your eyes, staring at someone else's dad...thinking of where is yours.

I hate to think about giving him time to take us away.

I hate to live to wait for someone that took a very long time to keep his promises since you were born.

I am sorry for being such a horrible mom to you.

Maybe, this is my Qada' and Qadar.

Please forgive me someday.



BILA TIBA

Saat tiba nafas di hujung hela, mata tinggi tak sanggup bicara
mulut terkunci tanpa suara
bila tiba saat berganti dunia, 
alam yang sangat jauh berbeda.
siapkah kita menjawab semua pertanyaan

bila nafas akhir berhenti sudah, jantung hati pun tak berdaya
hanya menangis tanpa suara.

mati tak bisa untuk kau hindari, tak mungkin bisa engkau lari
ajalmu pasti menghampiri

mati tinggal menunggu saat nanti, ke mana kita bisa lari
kita pastikan mengalami mati

mati tinggal menunggu saat nanti, ke mana kita bisa lari
kita pastikan mengalami mati.




Rapuh, opick.

detik waktu terus berjalan, berhias gelap dan terang...
suka dan duka, tangis dan tawa
tergores bagai lukisan.

seribu mimpi, berjuta sepi, 
hadir bagai teman sejati.

di antara lelahnya jiwa, dalam resah dan air mata
kupersembahkan kepada mu, 
yang terindah dalam hidupku.

meski ku rapuh dalam langkah
kadang tak setia kepada mu,
namun cinta dalam jiwa, hanyalah padamu.

maafkanlah bila hati tak sempurna mencintaiMu.
dalam dada kuharap hanya, diriMu yang bertakhta.

maafkanlah bila hati tak sempurna mencintaiMu.
dalam dada kuharap hanya, diriMu yang bertakhta.

detik waktu terus berlalu, semua berakhir padaMu.

...

Wallahua'lam.




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Thursday, July 25, 2019

Morning Stroll with him, her and her.

Hola.

So, the planning of deleting or deactivating my blog has been cancel. I really enjoy using Blogger since forever. 

What does it like to be with a husband and a daughter on weekends?

I still remember that, when we were dating back years, I used to pick him up at his uncle's house - just to have someone to talk to while enjoying my breakfast. I never expected that, I am still doing it again.

It was so wonderful to actually drive in the morning, enjoying the windy morning, put on the sunglasses, have some breakfast, sometimes we were having breakfast in McDonalds, and sometimes, we were heading to our local breakfast place to have our famous local food, 'roti canai' and 'nasi lemak'. Well, sometimes, I just love the 'bihun goreng' with fried egg! 

I'm getting sleepy right now and just wanted to share some of my memories in here.

This is me and my baby girl in my high school.















Alright then, will write again soon. See ya!

Love from,
United Kingdom. Malaysia.